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[quote=Anonymous]So many things: Started with myself first. Began meditation to deal with overwhelm and made exercise a priority. Did Imago and Gottman therapy with spouse. Highly recommend both. Established healthy boundaries with pushy in-laws. Talked maturely with spouse about why the boundaries were key to our family’s well-being. Learned (from my kids) how to apologize. Modeled it for spouse who now does it well too. Pursued my career dreams even though they scared my spouse. Currently working on resolving disagreements quickly. Otherwise, we both retreat out of fear, stalemate ensues. Life is too short. We’re 23 years in. He’s a weirdo. I’m a perfectionist. Seems to work. [/quote]
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