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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Recently separated 46 year old UMC, post grad educated, white woman. I'd been married for 14 years. I haven't been with another man since before my husband.

My sister says I needed to say fvck it and just into into Tinder to 'get alive again'

First few dates are just really ick because its obvious the guys think it's basically a booty call. That's not my interest at all.

Match with another guy and we actually correspond for a week before meeting. We meet. He's cute-ish, a little short, but he's professional, well spoken and kind so I'm open to meet again.

I suggest Indian. He says he's never had Indian food. I figure he's kidding but he's not so I say how about Pho. He says he doesn't even know what that is. Alarms are going off. How does a 45 year old urban professional not know about Pho or curry? Just for fun I then suggest Banh Mi. Yeah, never heard of that. He's never been out off the country. He doesn't read, never been to a play etc.

He's incredibly uncultured and its weird given his station.

Would you go out again?[/quote]

I don't eat Pho, curry, Bahn Mi, Indian..AND HAVE NO INTEREST TO. As a white, urban professional I have no interest to eat food from 3rd world countries.  When I was young & had no money, I did the "local" food & got seriously ill. I do not need to prove I am "cultured" by eating crap. I travel extensively, but I stay in 4 or 5 star hotels, & eat American/European cuisine. I hope after he gets his booty call, he moves on.[/quote]

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