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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there are some good points expressed here, and do what your gut tells you to do OP. It may not hurt to ask if you can go to part-time status at work. I negotiated fewer hours in my work week, and it really helped! However it was temporary so I am going to leave this position because I am lucky enough that I am in a field that offers flexibility. I agree it isn't all or nothing. I think people who think you need to "suck it up" are missing the point that it is your life to determine what you value. Maybe there are consequences that there it "stalls "you professionally, but you get to decide if you are okay with that. I also think it is a fair point to think about where it puts you financially in the long run. Can you work part-time, in a different field or position to bring in sone income to make sure your family has a safety net? My experience with 30-35 hour work weeks allowed me to experience which balance is right for me. I can still make a significant financial contribution to the family at that rate. Leaving this position will be risky, but is exciting. Wish me luck![/quote] Not op, but good luck.[/quote]
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