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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some extremely naive people on this thread.  The people that would be shocked, really? Most people cheated on, never thought it would happen to them. Strong sex at home doesn’t mean a thing. People like variety [/quote]

I was cheated on and have never cheated and I don't believe everyone cheats but I do find the pearl clutchers here to be naive. I never thought my husband would cheat and it wasn't about me or sex -- we had a lot of it and it was good -- it was about how having the attention of other women made him feel. And people would be shocked to find out that is why we divorced. He is universally known as a good guy -- kind, generous, loving. And cheater. Again, that doesn't mean every spouse cheats it just means don't assume people you know haven't or aren't cheating because they seem like good people committed to their marriage. It is possible. [/quote]

As a male who has never cheated I can really understand how this can happen. I’m recently retired and I was the CEO of a very large company. I like to think I’m better than average looking and I certainly had money and prestige and that can be bait especially when you travel a lot with a lot of socializing. Opportunities for cheating were numerous but I had an off the charts wonderful wife so I just never went there. The attention from other women was ego building and tempting but thankfully I didn’t bite the apple. And I’d always soon after call my wife so I could be reminded why I didn’t bite the forbidden fruit. [/quote]

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