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I so often hear that the wives are surprised when husbands want to divorce after kids leave home.  This tells me that there's a communication issue here.  Why not communicate to your wife in a way she understands how important sex is for you.  
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Many women don't know how important sex is for men and so don't let her be surprised if you ask her for divorce. 
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This is not the first time I've heard something like this. How can the high importance of sex to men be surprising? It's such a cliche and women are always accusing men of only wanting sex. Do these wives not think this is true? Or maybe they think that their husband is a special eunuch for some reason?[/quote]

Communicate!  Divorce shouldn't be a surprise to her if you file.
It's like men who claim they didn't know it was important to continue to plan dates.  They don't actually exist, they just pretend to be shocked - SHOCKED - when they get cheated on and claim their spouses owed them at least another hundred conversations about the most basic element of a marriage.[/quote]

Just like men are surprised that wives`desire is affected by how you treat her overall (chores, talk nicely etc.),  women are surprised that sex is THE most important thing to a man a marriage.

Communicate!  There should be no surprise if you do file for divorce.[/quote]

1/3rd of women have hypoactive sexual desire, and it's not from this.  I totally agree that men who treat their wives poorly shouldn't be surprised she doesn't want to have sex with you but most of the time it has nothing to do with the man.  Google it, and also add in monogamy is a libido killer for women and it's no mystery she doesn't want to have sex with you.  Check out how often lesbians have sex in long term relationships.  [/quote]

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