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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was cheated on. Do not say anything. Stay vigilant.

Either it is nothing or, 
Asking about it just makes them hide better. [/quote]

+100000[/quote]

But does OP then just let it happen? From the posts, it doesn’t sound like OP’s husband is cheating yet.  Sucks to be OP just watching and waiting.  I can’t imagine she will be able to be very close with DH during this time, which will probably exacerbate the issues in their relationship.

Also, it sounded like OP said she could dig for info without letting on that she’s been snooping... she said bank statements show DH was not where he said he was.  Could maybe innocently ask about that (“I saw a charge from X bar, were you there because I want to make sure someone hasn’t hijacked our account”) and see what reaction she gets.  Who knows, maybe DH comes clean and, like OP hopes, apologizes for hiding the drinks and says he did so because he was afraid OP would be jealous and overreact...[/quote]

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