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I was not sure on the science behind PPD and men.  I’ve read a few studies stating that some men have changed in hormones to reflect their partners during pregnancy and can have PPD.  It may be BS.  So let’s just say DH has a long history of depression and mental illness and that the birth of our twins seems to have created a downward spiral for him.  Maybe not PPD but a depressive episode triggered by adjusting to life with newborn twins.

No, the silent treatment is not normal for him.  I don’t consider him selfish or a “man baby”.   I consider him highly sensitive and that’s one of the reasons I love him.  I know that I’m the stronger of the two of us emotionally and for our relationship I’m usually the one he can rely on but he has supported me emotionally, mentally etc plenty of times.

He’s in a bad headspace and I wish I could help but I’m truly so exhausted I can barely function and unfortunately at the moment I cannot be his support system.  I was looking for advice on anyone who has had a spouse in the same place and what seemed to help.  Thank you to the users who mentioned going ahead and getting a nanny now.  I’m also trying to find a parental support group for new fathers.  I think talking to other men in similar situations will help. [/quote]

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