Reply to 5 great dates then he ghosts. Why?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "5 great dates then he ghosts. Why?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At least you managed five dates.  I have been alone for eighteen months now, and despite being a good looking (if not quite beautiful) woman in my late 40s, I have yet to be asked out on a single date by any man.  It is a profoundly lonely experience.

I will offer that I have not made any effort to date since my divorce, as my family's and my well being are my priority.  Also, I am not online and am referring only to those men that I either already know, meet, or come across in person in real life.   And since I do not often socialize in bars, parties, or restaurants, that is admittedly a limited group.  But still, you would have thought one of them might ask me out since they either know of my circumstances or can clearly see that I do not wear a wedding band.  Of course, some posters will suggest that I do the asking, but if a man is not even attracted enough to ask me out on a date, what is the point?[/quote]

On line makes it easy for men to date.  Men are intimidated to ask real live women out for a date.
Women throw themselves at men on line and in person.  Why should a man risk rejection.[/quote]

I can tell you're not a man because none of this is true.

The only men who women throw themselves at online are the "top 5%" in height / looks / status guys. For the overwhelming majority of guys, it is, "send messages to 300 women, get one response, then she flakes on you after you set up an in-person date."[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics