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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As if you didn't need more proof that constantly doting parents (particularly of boys) are part of the problem, the Dayton mass shooter's family described the shooter as: "funny, articulate and intelligent" in his obituary. Not mentioning that he killed his own sister.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7356369/Dayton-mass-shooters-family-publish-obituary-calling-Connor-Betts-kind-not-mentioning-murders.html[/quote]

The obit was really creepy.  Talking about his smile and how he like to read Harry Potter?   Like he wasn't a mass murderer, and killed his own sister?  And then directed to where donations in lieu of flowers should be made?  Who in their right mind would want to send flowers?[/quote]

Probably most mass killers had mothers who were “in love” with their boys in a very sick way. I’m thinking Adam Lanza’s mother. And the Columbine mother who recently wrote a book....

These women worship their boys and gave them anything they could.

Beware of women who put their boys on pedestals, and make endless excuses for their boys’ bad behavior.[/quote]

Yet again, women are blamed for male behavior.

These males either A. Knew right from wrong, and chose to commit a wrong of their own accord or B. Did not understand right from wrong, in which case they have a mental illness that goes way beyond mommy not saying no enough. [/quote]
Are you coddling your boy? If so, you are crippling him. Please stop. The consequences could be devastating.

If he doesn't obey and respect you, he won't respect other girls/women, either.[/quote]

Interesting that you jump to that conclusion.

I have very high standards for males. This includes the standard that no matter what happened to you- crappy childhood, crazy mother, uninvolved father, a girl who broke your heart, a friend who stole your girlfriend, whatever- it is not an excuse for poor behavior. Too many men whine about their childhoods and use it as an excuse to be a$$holes. I do not enable them by blaming their parents. Sorry you didn't have ideal parents. Guess what, none of us did. That's life.

Do some PARENTS (not just mothers!) do things that promote entitlement in their kids? Absolutely. But those kids don't live in a vacuum, and are still exposed to the idea that things like murder, rape, theft, etc are wrong. If they then choose to do those things, that is entirely on them. Women do not make them do anything. [/quote]

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