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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband, at 33, had never been in a relationship before we dated. He didn't hesitate to be in one with me. I think that's the difference here. She has no history and expresses no interest with you. So I doubt it will happen. She's a tease and probably has something really messed up in her sexual past.[/quote]

OP here.  Right, this is the most telling way of looking at it.  If she was ready, she would be all in.  I think what I'm seeing in terms of her flirtations and other expressions of interest is that deep down she wants romance, sex, companionship, etc -- we are human and much of this is a deep-seated biological need outside of our control.  So this is a safe way of her expressing those desires but she still has the roadblock of actually following through with it.  What probably helps her discount the possibilities further is that this is between people at work so in her mind, it's not possible anyway.  Again, it's safe for her.

I agree that there are two ways of looking at it. [b] Either multiple guys over the years have tried to get with her and quickly gave up, so maybe there is a chance for another guy who has the patience to break through.  Or other guys have been patient and still haven't broken through. [/b] And I don't want to be that fool.

So we'll see what happens, but I am squarely focusing on other woman now.[/quote]

Or there were few or no guys who even tried, because why bother?[/quote]

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