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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You must make a very large income to only spend 40%.[/quote]

You are weird. I quit my job in a similar situation. I wasn’t going to work for only 60%pay while missing time with my kid.[/quote]. You are weird ( and incredibly myopic) that you aren’t thinking about so much more that goes into a job other than just take-home pay - benefits, retirement savings, preservation of any potential career track, financial independence, being a good role model for your children, the list goes on. I have no problem with SAHM Your individual reasons for choosing to be a SAGM,but stop judging others that have different priorities and outlook. [/quote]

When you die, most jobs are not that important that you will be remembered and you can easily be replaced.  You do whats best for you and your family and not worry about people like you who judge.  Many of us don't need the benefits - my spouse is retired military so we get life long health care at a reasonable price.  I don't work.  We still save for my retirement and I have retirement savings from when I worked for many years.  I have money in my name, I have full access to all the money and I'm the one who mostly controls the money.  And, yes, I'm a very good role model for my kids.  They know I worked, they know I love being home with them and more importantly they can count on us to make sure all their needs are met.  You are judging others for staying home with your financial independence and role model comments. [/quote]

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