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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would move myself and my child (or my H and step son) into an apartment for a few months. You can likely find something furnished with a short lease. I don’t think your H is making the right choice, but if he feels he must do this, then you need to protect your child. He can help his son to stability while keeping your child from living with an active addict with violent tendencies. It will be expensive, but less expensive than divorce. [/quote] OP here. I’d do this is in a heartbeat. I already agreed that DSS can spend all the time he wants here during the day while my kid isn’t here and for short periods while she is. Those times have all been pretty calm. I think it’s whats encouraging my husband that moving in would be just as calm and simple as these “respites” and then DSS would make progress. My concern is that his time here is calm precisely because we are asking if he is smoking or dealing with any rules. If we say something that upsets him, we back off. If he moves in, it’s different.[/quote]
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