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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think your update paints you in the light you think it does. It turns out she wants to meet her brother? Mental problems or not, why is that a bad motive? Obviously your ex-step-daughter shouldn’t be alone with your son, but i don’t think it’s weird that someone who had gotten older and done some introspection — even rehab-mandated/inspired introspection — wants to meet her brother. She may have thought calling him your son would butter you up/make it clear she respected your role. I also don’t know why you’d take her mother — who clearly wasn’t interested in you two having any relationship ever — at face value, which it sounds like you’ve done.[/quote] The only one that OP should be thinking about is her son. Hell would have to break lose before I introduced my child to an entitled, possibly druggie sibling. Too bad the step daughter is going through some tough shit, and some of it may be related to the divorce. Well, she is an adult now, and she has her own mother. OP's job is to mother her own kid and protect him from the likes of her. Yes, a person who would call my relatives claiming she has the right to a relationship with my child when such a relationship was never established is nuts and entitled. She was a child then; she is no longer a child now, and she is still crazy as eff. Keep her far away from your son OP. He can decide what he wants to do with that relationship when he grow up. [/quote]
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