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[quote=Anonymous]I would have let my kid miss the bus after explaining the consequences of doing so (which would have been designed to make them want to get on the bus).  You can force younger kids to do stuff sometimes, but it won't last and it doesn't help them learn how to weigh consequences and motivate themselves.  If the kid makes a decision in the moment b/c it's easy at that moment, then they have to deal with difficult consequences (which can require some discipline on parent's part in following through), it usually doesn't take too long for them to figure out that it wasn't worth it and next time they make a better choice.  (I think this applies to kids who are squarely in the typical/average behavioral range - which sounded like yours is.  I know that things get harder with kids who are more difficult or have emotional/behavioral issues).

Also agree with PP who mentioned the need to apologize.  Kids should understand that adults and parents make mistakes and have an example of how to appropriately face those mistakes.  Done right, I think it'll rebuild some respect/trust.

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