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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depressed/suicidal people need not have children. Much less give children the job of keeping Mommy alive. Find something else to make your existence worthwhile.[/quote] Literally one of the biggest reasons I'm childfree. I worry if I had kids they would inherit my mental illnesses and be just as miserable as I am now. My own mother has very poor emotional boundaries and untreated depression, anxiety, and is pretty narcissistic and passive aggressive, and we (my siblings and I) know that we "have to take care of mom" when she is having an episode. It's exhausting and inappropriate. I can't imagine hoisting that kind of burden onto another living person. In college the only reason I didn't kill myself was because my parents co-signed on my loans and I went to college 20+ hours away by car. I would imagine my parents driving that distance to take all my junk home and my body and what a burden that would be on them. Now that I'm older its for my siblings and my dogs.[/quote]
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