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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Work part time and don't tell him. Supplement the money you need for bills with your $4M. Reassess at 9 months.

You don't have to do what you husband tells you to do. [/quote]

Sure.  And he doesn't have to do do what she wants - support her while she stays at home.

Look, the default in this country is that adults work, in order to pay the bills.  You may not like it, but that's the way it is.  I agree with a PP that in a relationship, if one person wants to stop working, it needs two yes votes.  Without consensus, the default - everyone works - continues.  [/quote]

Good god, no.  The default in this country is that marriage is a partnership and each partner looks out for the other.  If that means one slows down their career for health reasons or childcare, they figure it out together.

This is a problem for marriage counseling.  But I agree, I think dropping down at work, to part time, is a good middle ground solution.  [/quote]

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