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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP.  Earlier on in our marriage before  infertility and kids, my husband said he would like for me to be a SAHM however he changed his mind.  I never thought I would be since I was career oriented. As the years gone by, we've both made more money and it doesn't seem to be enough for him.   Honestly, I never thought how selfish and inconsiderat my husband would be once we had our children. He only thinks of himself at times and do the minimal in helping with the household and children.   My children aren not great sleepers and have some medical concerns.  I recently hired a cleaning lady to come to our houes 2x a month.  This was a big arguement with my husband since he didn't want a total stranger in our house.  Just something like hiring help is just difficult with him.

I offered my husband the option of him being a sahp so that at least I could concentrate on one thing and be good at it.  Right now I feel like both my career and child rearing is flondering.  I am uable to concentrate on any one thing and am frustrated and overwhelmed.  I've asked for counseling many time for our marriage but he doesn't believe in it.   I just don't have anymore to give.  I need to take care of myself so I can be healthy for my children.  I'm starting to come to the realization that divorce shouldn't be off the table. 
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