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Reply to "Feel like I'm on a crash course towards an affair. Can't stop."
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[quote=Anonymous]Op light banter with a colleague isn't a big deal... when both people know and respect the line. He might, but you are close to not. You can't control him but what you can do is back off the IMs. Don't initiate them, be shorter in your responses. He will in turn eventually back off and a lot of your problem goes away there. Remind yourself, you do not want to be the injured animal he feels he has to or gets to save. Don't be that person who is all "but he's nice to me!" Surely you recognize that isn't attraction as much as desperation. And if he does hire you do you really want ANYONE to be able to claim it was because of something inappropriate? Even if you're just giving off those vibes. You can back off. It will be hard because it means depriving yourself of something fun. But you can and for your own self respect if not the benefit of your marriage, you should. [/quote]
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