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Reply to "Feel like I'm on a crash course towards an affair. Can't stop."
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[quote=Anonymous]It would be a good start to look for employment elsewhere so you can eliminate or at least minimize the temptation. In the meantime, I agree with PPs who advised you to stop chatting with him during the day - and if he asks what's up, say you've got some big projects that require your focus and you needed to limit distractions at work. Its just as likely that the allure of this man is that he is new/ not your husband and is showing interest in you. I think these things tend to fizzle if you put some space between him and yourself. Remind yourself that marriage is work and a certain degree of monotony with anyone - it would be the same thing with your colleague ten years in. One this is pretty much certain: Even if it doesn't work out between you and your husband in the long run, you'll never regret NOT cheating on him. This new man is not your safety raft to get off a sinking ship. Learn to swim on your own if you want to jump. [/quote]
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