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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I was really hoping this wouldn’t fall into an abortion debate but here we are.

I am this girls god mother which is how we have had a close relationship but I am also related to her.

Her parents have passed away so her options for a safety net are v limited. I have already been the one to lean on through a v difficult time—I held an intervention and got her into a mental health hospital and then paid for rehab. Since then she’s been using but now says she’s going to meeting everyday and is not using.

I’m trying to come up with health boundaries myself as I navigate this. She’s 18 so technically an adult. But IMO stopped developing with the trauma she went through at 12 with her parents.

This is a girl who went to all the private schools you all freak out about getting into who’s parents bought in all the neighborhoods you guys debate and salivate over. As one of the previous posters said—indeed, by the grace of god go you. [/quote]

Who was raising her all these years?

Can you not offer to care for her baby while she goes to rehab? And then let her live with you with the baby while she is recovering?
[b]What she seems desperate for is the love of a family. Getting her an abortion isn’t going to achieve that.[/b] [/quote]

Niether is bringing another human being into her fuc&ed up world.  If you are desperate for love, you do not have a baby to fix that. A baby is not a pet.

This is what abortions are meant for.[/quote]

Pro abortion at it's finest.[/quote]

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