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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, it's often true because mothers still typically manage most of the social calendar for children and the family. The kiss of death is for the MIL to expect her DIL to pick up the slack where the MIL failed to raise her own son. The DIL will keep up relationships with her own parents if she values them, but the son needs to do the same.

If you want to be involved with your son's children, then raise your son to be an equal partner with raising kids and maintaining family relationships. If you have daughters too, then raise your sons and daughters with equal division of household labor. Lay the expectation now for your sons to make or buy a gift for his parents' birthdays. Have your sons call their grandparents on their birthdays and send them cards.

On the other hand, I see a lot of times that the grown son doesn't like his parents so he doesn't want to make the effort to keep up close relationships. Then his parents blame his wife because they don't want to admit that they don't have a great relationship with their own son.

I've seen a lot of both situations.[/quote]

And another one: sons who like their family and visit but when they get married just don't want to. Dh transferred his free time to his nuclear family. Nothing wrong with his family, he just doesn't want to visit constantly. He prefers to spend time with the kids locally instead of having them in the car to drive 3 hours to his family monthly. It's just a natural progression, but I was blamed for it. [/quote]

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