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[quote=Anonymous]Read much of the first 3 pages, minimal last couple. Overall, I agree that OP has an obligation to her family because she got the benefit of the education. Otherwise it's like the first two kids getting the inheritance and leaving a big hole in the ground for the remaining sibs. Not only that, OPs brother also has an obligation. At the same time: do OPs parents have an unrealistic picture of what OPs life in the US is like in terms of income and COL? Were unrealistic pictures part of the earlier decisions regarding education? I can only imagine how difficult this is--as is, I'm sure, often the case when parents and children are figuring out how to bridge cultures (and geography on top of that). I suppose sponsoring a sibling to come to the US and do public h.s. is not realistic given the time frames? And the general slowdown under Trump of legal immigration proceedings and higher rates of denials to legal immigrants? [/quote]
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