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[quote=Anonymous]I have a relative whom I gave money to on a regular basis because she didn't finish college and was working hard to make ends meet, sometimes as much as $7,000.  All amounts were gifts, not loans.  I think it's fine that you are generous to your good friend.  Her DH was probably feeling emasculated and lashed out. While that was wrong, you're fiancé was a HUGE a hole for saying what he said.  Contrary to what most on this thread have said, I'd keep helping your friend, just like I keep helping my family member, whom I consider my best friend.  As your significant other is your fiancé you need to sit down and figure out how all this will work going forward.  I was helping my relative before I got married and continued after I got married.  My dad was very controlling of money so going in I discussed with DH about us each having a certain amount of money allocated that we could each do with as we pleased.  I helped my relative out of that fund.  He bought ridiculously expensive golf clubs and things like that. You don't want this impacting you relationship, but you also need to figure out whether what your fiancé did was out of character or if it's how he behaves on a regular basis.  It was not a good show as far as his character goes. [/quote]

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