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Reply to "Please help- my DH lost his job again and I’m thinking of leaving him"
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[quote=Anonymous]He is under an immense amount of stress. He is the sole breadwinner and there are mounting debts. He likely feels he is drowning. I am not sure if his drinking is actually an addiction or more self medicating to deal with the massive stress, guilt, and shame he likely experiences. If he is unemployed then will he come with you if you move? Do you rent or own? Maybe he will have more job options on the west coast as well. Why don't you make the move as a family. You will be close to your family for extra support, you can get a job, and you can figure out next steps. That way your kids don't need to experience the loss of a parent and you can figure this out together. You are still going to have to deal with the debt if you run to the west coast. [/quote]
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