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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: [b]My sister has said our stepdad didn't touch her but he looked at her and made her feel uncomfortable.[/b] Of course he looked at us. He also helped us with homework, sports, etc.

She won't help care for my mom but I really think it's her selfishness. [b]She has a very busy social and career life.[/b] No, I don't ask my mom to pay me for going to see about her. Maybe I should but that seems really mercenary. I consider it part of my family responsibility. By the same token my sister's neglect doubles the amount I need to do so I don't think she's entitled to half.[/quote]

Could it be that sister was prettier and thus a target of stepdad's lecherous looking? Could that have made OP jealous [b]because the male in the house was paying the sister more attention[/b]?

OP also sound[b]s jealous of sister's social life and career.[/b] Perhaps this is more about sibling rivalry and a case of sour grapes as far as OP is concerned and she is justifying it to show that she is a better daughter to her mother.  In reality, a good daughter would give her parents the happiness of thinking that the relationship between the siblings was loving, even if it was a pretence for the sake of parents. [/quote]

Your points are really bizarre. I don't know any woman who thinks that way. *Shudder*
And her being jealous? My siblings do most of the caretaking and I would absolutely insist they get more than me. It seems only fair. [/quote]

Do you know any women who think it’s cool for a man to leer at his stepdaughters?[/quote]

Yeah, PP is super creepy. There are zero teenage who would be jealous of an old man flirting with her sister.

No matter what the girls relationship is like, I find it hard to believe that any girl would secretly be jealous of that - but especially not a teen. [/quote]

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