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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP what is it that you want? People have given advice and you poopoo it all. Are you just here to vent?[/quote]

She wants him to stop visiting them completely. He’s already limited his visits according to her. She also has the freedom to stay home but that’s not enough because she wants to spend Christmas Day with him.

OP, he says he won’t stop visiting completely or cut them off completely. He’s offered you a compromise of not going with him. It seems like that’s as far as he will go and, frankly, insisting he give up his family and traditions seems a little much.  Yes, ideally he’d talk to his mom and tell her to shut up, but people don’t change much and I doubt that would work anyway. You need to decide whether you can live in a marriage where he has a part of his life (his family, his traditions) that you don’t join in.  [/quote]

Where in any of OPs posts did she say she wanted her DH to cut them off. You are posting over and over in this thread and it's obnoxious. You sound like a disgruntled MIL.

OP wants her DH to support her. OP would probably appreciate DH telling his mom not to insult, lie and demean his wife. OP would probably like some encouragement from DH that what she feels is not wrong and stop telling her to "just ignore it".

OP is following advice and asked for a therapist recommendation in another thread - and I don't think anyone even responded to THAT. But you're chattering on nonstop about how unreasonable OP is being. She sounds like she has bent over backwards and all she wants to know is that DH has her back - outside of "that's just the way they are and you can stay home".

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Thank you. This is exactly what I want. I feel so alone as my feelings aren’t validated by my husband. I don’t want him to cut them off. I want to feel that he cares about me and doesn’t want me to be subject to their cruelty. [/quote]

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