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[quote=TwistdMike][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure how this ties in, exactly, but I'm the DH and have always been the higher drive part of the couple. However, when we were trying to conceive, my wife was on a mission and scheduled frequent sex for us around the time she was ovulating. When it was a scheduled chore, I definitely found it tedious. Since then, I've never really pushed for more frequent sex than she wants. [/quote] Women need a REASON for sex. One reason is she wants a baby. Another is she wants to secure a new relationship. Beyond those 2 specific reasons, women do not often want sex.[/quote] I'm super horny and want sex all the time. The difference is I don't have some jerk living in my house who expects sex like he expects me to brush my teeth once a day (as another poster put it). Married sex is just boring and is undermined by the day-to-day resentments of living with another person. [/quote] If sex is boring or nonexistent, then you need to look more closely at other areas in the relationship. Communication, passion, efforts outside of the bedroom play a huge part. We’ve been married for 10 years and our bedroom life is far from boring, both are completely satiated and happy. However, I believe us having a great relationship otherwise is the biggest influence. Also, good communication on feelings and desires, is key. Do we have arguments or disagreements, sure, that’s part of the passion, too. Sticking with it and coming to a solution is critical. Walking away in silent resentment is a killer.[/quote]
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