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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Friendships change over time. Money is just one reason why, though often a big reason. If it's valuable to you, then even though it isn't really fair -- you will avoid the issues she's insecure about -- things; cars; vacations; etc. Like the PPs above, if you want to continue to be friends focus on ideas, events, etc. not who is going where/how cool it would be to live here or drive there because clearly that's hurting her feelings even though you aren't bragging about your OWN trips or commenting on where she should live.[/quote]

OP doesn’t have any ideas. [b]All her conversation in the first post about cars, house, etc. Who wants boring friends?[/b][/quote]

THIS.  I've long had a lot more money than almost everyone I associate with and I never talk about those things.  They're meaningless and boring.[/quote]

OP here -- ok well I don't find architecture and construction boring -- it's my other passion other than the market/business/finance. I think people think I'm sitting around saying -- wow that condo listed for 2.2mil. I'm not. I'm commenting on the actual construction, views, design. Sorry that bores you so.[/quote]

New poster, Are you really surprised and snarking that someone finds this activity boring? I couldn’t even imagine our conversation if started talking about cars. If this reaction is odd to you, you lack of lot of self awareness.[/quote]

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