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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No. I’m not crazy about it, but it is normal teen behavior. Abuse? Yes. Drugs or other illegal behavior? Yes. Consensual sex? MYOB.[/quote]

[b]Hope you enjoy being a grandparent, PP! Love how you "MYOB" re: teen sex. Really? No need to find out if it's safe sex? Consensual is your only concern?
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OP, if I were the girl's parent I'd want to know. I have a teen DD and would want to know. Even if it wasn't fully true and maybe DD was making up brags to her friends. I'd want to know what was being said.

The "I don't want to betray my daughter" argument is real, but OP, is there truly no way on Earth you can tell the parent without "betraying" your DD? Do you think the parent is going to tell her DD the source, or does your own DD say her friend had only told her?

OP, if your DD were sexually active wouldn't you want to know so you could get her on birth control or talk to her about STDs or even, yes, explain why you wanted her to wait, if that were how you wanted to approach it? [/quote]

Not too worried about becoming a grandparent prematurely, PP. My own house rules don’t allow for closed bedroom doors when girlfriends or boyfriends are visiting. And my own children got the sex and safe sex talks early and often.  For the record, I wouldn’t rule out talking with the girl herself to make sure she is not in an unsafe situation, if I had specific cause for concern about consent or exploitation. [/quote]

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