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[quote=Anonymous]I am going to give you some retrospect advice, as I was divorced when my children were younger (15 years ago). Speaking with your children every day etc. is not going to matter to the child at all, what matters in the end is that the parents make peace and get along and model that behavior for the rest of the family. That will make your children more secure than any amount of phone calls, texts whatever. Once I learned to be more casual in my approach the the ex and in laws my children relaxed, my ex relaxed, and the everyday of life was so much smoother. Sure I thought they were jerks but I began to see humor in it , however I did have full custody and the lions share of the child raising went to me, the teen years were a bitch with my ex siding with teens on bad behavior. But they kids have done really well, college educated young professionals so something must have worked. [/quote]
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