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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, When I see a ring, particularly a big ring, I see a woman who needed an expensive gift in order to see her spouse as worth marrying. I see a woman who  needs a husband who is still very traditional and needs a husband who earns her love through gifts she can show off to prove to her friends he will be able to keep her and provide for her.

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You all are kind of depressing me. I have a huge ring that’s a family heirloom- it’s the only thing i have that belonged to my dead grandmother. It’s ridiculously large, but it was free which was only s little less than we could have afforded at the time. A couple shallow friends told me i should “make” my husband buy me something else because the ring was free. We preferred to spend money saving for a house down payment instead. 
Sometimes when i feel like I’m going to be judged i rotate my ring so the diamond is in my palm and it looks like a plain band

I wish the judgement was in my imagination, but you’re definitely confirming my worst fears[/quote]

Who the hell cares what other people think? I wear my large ring and don’t give any thought to what other women may or may not be thinking about me, my DH, or our marriage. There are women who are always judging others’ clothes, bodies, homes, spouses, cars, hair, etc. and engaging in rampant projections. It’s exhausting. You can’t live your life based on what others may think. Wear the ring if you like it and stop worrying about whether someone is going to judge you. [/quote]

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