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Reply to "Dishonesty discovered day before wedding -- WWYD?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As the ex-wife of a cheater, the main lesson I drew was that lying (about anything) and avoiding conflict are the two big character flaws of cheaters. I too justified the little dishonesties like everyone in this thread is doing. But, the truth is such lies (of commission or omision) were huge red flags that should have signaled me to end the relationship. Remember, you get what you accept in life. Personally, what you describe would cause me to end the relationship. Period. [/quote] They are also flaws of people in relationships with melodramatic women who make a huge deal out of every little thing. [/quote] Ah, yes, it's not the lie that's the problem, it's the person who makes a big deal of the lie. Just like it's not a big deal to hit a woman, the problem is either she didn't listen (and thus deserved to be hit) and/or she made a big deal out of it. People with attitudes like yours are the ones that enable the perpetration of physical and emotional abuse. [/quote]
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