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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got pregnant "accidentally"

To this day he still thinks he had to talk me into keeping the pregnancy, lol.[/quote]

This  ^^^  is why I had a vasectomy and took that option away from her to exercise again whenever she felt like it.  This is too common and there is a special place in hell for women like you.  So many men will never know about these birth control "accidents."  But here's a tip, birth control hardly ever truly fails.  When a woman truly doesn't want to get pregnant, the birth control seems to be nearly 100% effective. The inverse of this is also true.[/quote]

This is not true! I got pregnant using a condom and taking morning after pill because I thought there was a chance the condom might have slipped. I really did not want the pregnancy and had an abortion. So... no, most women don’t do this on purpose... not sure what kind of person you married (poor you). Birth control fails so if men want to make sure they don’t have kids, they should not have sex (same goes for women of course)[/quote]

Your BC failed so you had an abortion.  The ultimate birth control.  You're making my case.  You didn't want a child and made sure you didn't.  It's when a woman wants a child that the failure rate goes way up and abortion is not an option.

It's not just my experience, I've seen it plenty of times and many women have admitted as much to their friends.  It's also a common ploy of women who know the husband wants out of the marriage.  Or to trap a guy into marriage.

"..if men want to make sure they don’t have kids, they should not have sex.."  That's one sure way, but not much fun.  A much better way is to take ultimate control and get snipped.  Leaving BC up to a woman is foolish unless your are dead sure that woman doesn't want children.  Then, it's just a little foolish.[/quote]

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