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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's the energy.  I have some friends who I consider to be very unattractive and they always have a handsome successful guy.  I have friends who are gorgeous who can't buy a date.  It's their energy.

I have lots of divorced friends who've really struggled to find guys.  I found an amazing guy a month after my divorce.  People always mention my energy.[/quote]

It sounds like OPs friend is super hot but it’s also sounds like she may have this.

What men and women find attractive is completely different.

Men like women who have a calm, no fuss, laid back attitude. I have seen multiple friends of mine who aren’t super model good looking but snagged really good quality high earning boyfriends and husbands.

One grew up a dorky nerd. She had boy cut hair, glasses and dressed in no fuss t shirts and jeans. She didn’t talk like a girl or act like a girl. But! She has a fantastic personality. And this doesn’t mean she is one of those loud Valley girl speaking blonde drunk chick at parties who hogs all the attention. She is quiet, observant, laid back and goes with the flow. She has tons of guy friends and can talk a lot with them about coding, startups, hackathons or what have you. She ended up dating and marrying this millionaire tech entrepreneur. She is the least materialistic person I know. She has a good heart and is whip smart but not in a cocky way.

Another is a very plain looking brunette. Largish nose and short. But she grew into her looks in her early twenties. She learned to take care of her skin, learn to do her hair, workout and build her body, and dress in a clean, preppy put together way. She is also super quiet, has a calm, confident collected vibe about her. She’s content and doesn’t have to try hard to impress anyone. Instead of being the talker, she is the listener and puts people at ease. She was very intensely pursued by a rich preppy high quality guy for a year before she said yes. Now they’re like the model couple.

But both these girls have a similar chill don’t try too hard vibe. Neither are great or even conventional beauties but did exceptionally well in the dating market.

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