Anonymous wrote:NP here. I understand. I have a friend who describes herself as the “ ugly duckling”. She’s not the hottest, but most men describe her as “ cute girl next door”. She is 28 and still looks early 20’s, nice blue eyes ( but small), and a cute smile. She has an incredible petite body at 5’1. I think men stare Nabataeans she’s so tiny with c cup boobs, a flat stomach, and a nice big butt. I’m of equal attractiveness, but without the body. I don’t get nearly as much attention.

Totally off topic, but I'm always interested in the very specific autocorrects you sometimes see on these boards, and what it says about the population of people who post here.i had to Google Nabataens -- are you a scholar of ancient civilizations or something?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, men love petite women, and if she has a fit but curvy figure that is enough to make her "super hot" to them. They don't care how much money she makes, or her personality (in the short term) they only care about a very small woman who looks young and has a "hot" figure.

Believe me, I've had friends like this as well. I'm over 5'9", with a small bust and great hair, and at the time was fit. I was almost like I was invisible when I was with them.

THIS! It's true, all sizes of men loooove petite figures.

So freaking true. Petite and cute is not threatening, and most men want that. I was screwed whenever I'd go out with my super petite, cute friends--I'm 5'8 and built like a swimmer.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, men love petite women, and if she has a fit but curvy figure that is enough to make her "super hot" to them. They don't care how much money she makes, or her personality (in the short term) they only care about a very small woman who looks young and has a "hot" figure.

Believe me, I've had friends like this as well. I'm over 5'9", with a small bust and great hair, and at the time was fit. I was almost like I was invisible when I was with them.

THIS! It's true, all sizes of men loooove petite figures.

Op here. She's petite. About 5'4 with a small build. Not a bubble butt though.

Anonymous wrote:OP, men love petite women, and if she has a fit but curvy figure that is enough to make her "super hot" to them. They don't care how much money she makes, or her personality (in the short term) they only care about a very small woman who looks young and has a "hot" figure.

Believe me, I've had friends like this as well. I'm over 5'9", with a small bust and great hair, and at the time was fit. I was almost like I was invisible when I was with them.

THIS! It's true, all sizes of men loooove petite figures.

OP, men love petite women, and if she has a fit but curvy figure that is enough to make her "super hot" to them. They don't care how much money she makes, or her personality (in the short term) they only care about a very small woman who looks young and has a "hot" figure.

Believe me, I've had friends like this as well. I'm over 5'9", with a small bust and great hair, and at the time was fit. I was almost like I was invisible when I was with them.

Anonymous wrote:It's the energy. I have some friends who I consider to be very unattractive and they always have a handsome successful guy. I have friends who are gorgeous who can't buy a date. It's their energy.

I have lots of divorced friends who've really struggled to find guys. I found an amazing guy a month after my divorce. People always mention my energy.

It sounds like OPs friend is super hot but it’s also sounds like she may have this.

What men and women find attractive is completely different.

Men like women who have a calm, no fuss, laid back attitude. I have seen multiple friends of mine who aren’t super model good looking but snagged really good quality high earning boyfriends and husbands.

One grew up a dorky nerd. She had boy cut hair, glasses and dressed in no fuss t shirts and jeans. She didn’t talk like a girl or act like a girl. But! She has a fantastic personality. And this doesn’t mean she is one of those loud Valley girl speaking blonde drunk chick at parties who hogs all the attention. She is quiet, observant, laid back and goes with the flow. She has tons of guy friends and can talk a lot with them about coding, startups, hackathons or what have you. She ended up dating and marrying this millionaire tech entrepreneur. She is the least materialistic person I know. She has a good heart and is whip smart but not in a cocky way.

Another is a very plain looking brunette. Largish nose and short. But she grew into her looks in her early twenties. She learned to take care of her skin, learn to do her hair, workout and build her body, and dress in a clean, preppy put together way. She is also super quiet, has a calm, confident collected vibe about her. She’s content and doesn’t have to try hard to impress anyone. Instead of being the talker, she is the listener and puts people at ease. She was very intensely pursued by a rich preppy high quality guy for a year before she said yes. Now they’re like the model couple.

But both these girls have a similar chill don’t try too hard vibe. Neither are great or even conventional beauties but did exceptionally well in the dating market.

Guess what ladies? Men aren't always attracted to the hotties! Give me an attractive, smart and funny woman over a an empty headed hottie any day of the week.

Op, you need to post a picture so that we can settle this.

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Anonymous wrote:Men love nannies and preschool teachers. Multiple men have told me this. It’s a primal reaction to someone taking care of them and their children.

Yeah.. But

They walk into walls not knowing a damn thing about this girl.

As a guy .. I guarantee this woman has a heart shaped face, blue eyes , healthy hair and a tremendous booty.

OP here. Her eyes are brown.

Her waist to hip ratio may be the perfect .7 Her face, while not done up, may be close to perfectly symmetrical and she may have large, wide, deep-set eyes. Some people just have "it", an energy that attracts people on a subconscious level, as well as some of the universal attraction markers listed above.

Anonymous wrote:Men love nannies and preschool teachers. Multiple men have told me this. It’s a primal reaction to someone taking care of them and their children.

Men like not-bitchy hotties. Young women who like kids fit that description

Anonymous wrote:Men love nannies and preschool teachers. Multiple men have told me this. It’s a primal reaction to someone taking care of them and their children.

Yeah.. But

They walk into walls not knowing a damn thing about this girl.

As a guy .. I guarantee this woman has a heart shaped face, blue eyes , healthy hair and a tremendous booty.

Men love nannies and preschool teachers. Multiple men have told me this. It’s a primal reaction to someone taking care of them and their children.

News flash: men aren't that into women who wear a ton of makeup, are high maintenance, plastic and so on. They might "like" these pictures online, but not in real life. I highly doubt your friend is "plain." Just girl-next-door - fresh, cute, young. How rude that you call her plain! Some "friend."

Anonymous wrote:I’m like your friend. I’m rather plain looking or ugly, but I attract many guys. I’m 28 but people often mistake me for 21-25. I think most men like me because I’m just over 5’1, with 32c boobs, and a firm bubble butt. I’m very approachable, often nice and kind to everyone. I’m also a huge freak in bed. Most
“ average” looking women are low key freaks in bed.

Guy here. Are you single?