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[quote=Anonymous]OP, once again, listen. You are in a verbally abusive relationship. You are behaving exactly as an abused spouse does: you reach out for help, people who are genuinely concerned for your welfare respond to you, and you back pedal with a different story and apologize for making a big deal out of nothing.  If you keep doing this in your real life (which I'm sure you have), eventually people will get sick of it and start to distance themselves.

This is textbook. I'm not buying your denial. You are in a verbally abusive marriage.

The question it's not what to do, you've gotten tons of advice here and in your real life for YEARS and you keep ignoring it. Or excusing the behavior. Or deciding it's not a big deal. Or thinking the kids are better off in an intact family. Or whatever.

You know what to do. The question isn't what to do, the question is why you won't do it. They question can't be answered by your friends, relatives or an anonymous chat board. You have to seek help to answer that question. This is the essential question.

Why won't you leave this abusive relationship?  Are you that afraid of him? Or are you that self loathing that you feel you deserve this?[/quote]

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