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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I’m really just so annoyed. All I waned was a quiet relaxing vacation away from everyone. I have a stack of books I planned on reading. Ugh. And yes, this is Speing Break. We can’t change our plans now, we would lose too much money. And yes, it’s a small resort (maybe 100 suites?) I’m just picturing not being able to even go to the pool without running into them. I have no idea how to even tell her we won’t be hanging out 24/7 and sharing a table for every meal. And yes, she told me that it will be great because our kids can play and we can socialize. Ugh! How can I get out of this, DCUM! What can I tactfully say?[/quote] I don't think you can get out of it. If you can't change dates (kids' break) and can't go someplace else ($$), chances are it's the same case for them too -- I am assuming she has booked it already. Sure you can say upfront -- family time, stack of books to read etc. and maybe she keeps her distance -- BUT at a 100 suite resort, you WILL see them at the pool and restaurant. So even if you don't sit with them/act cold so they don't come join you -- you're awkwardly going to be trying not to look in their direction the whole time. Sorry. Good luck.[/quote]
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