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These numbers explain a lot. The emphasis on sexiness and hotness for women is MUCH more intense than it was when I grew up. It overwhelms all the other talk about the need for a woman to be educated, confident and career focused. 
Look at actresses in the UK. There are many, many relatively normal looking women. In the US you must be a sex goddess.

This, and just in the recent decade it has permeated into the MILF and Cougars. Women are now more than EVER expected to be "sex kittens" well into middle age. However, we women do it to ourselves. One only needs to look at Instagram and the culture of female selfie narcissism to see exactly how and why we are moving backwards. We objectify ourselves and then cry boo-hoo when men no longer know how to act around us. So many mixed message.

I think women need to take a hard look in the mirror to find the answers.

My god what is with some women and this anti-attractive obsession. Is it an excuse for not being as successful as you had hoped or fat women jealous? Really, I dont get it. Women in the US do not put in anywhere near the effort in their appearance of women in other most Europe or Latin American, not even close. Stop making excuses and focus on high earning fields.

Actually I speak from experience, at least the experience of a high SES woman who steps right into the pitfalls. [b]I'm 45 and feel immense pressure to keep up. It is exhausting. There certainly are women out there who say f*ck it and don't bother [/b]and in a way I really admire them.

In order to remain a size 6 at 45, I'm borderline exercise obsessed, I watch every bite of food that goes into my mouth, I dye my hair every 5 weeks, I work hard to keep my hair long AND healthy, I spend a small fortune on well fitting clothes that are slightly trendy, but not too trendy that it makes me look like I'm in the midst of a mid-life crisis, I've had my boobs lifted and enhanced, I avoid the sun like the plague, and have a treasure chest of cosmetics and creams...it is an uphill battle. Many of the women in my peer group do just the same, some have had elective c-sections to spare their vagina and then all the tucks afterwards, many do botox and fillers, and some have moved into blepharoplasty as the eyes have gotten puffier and the lids have started to droop. [/quote]

You wrote the solution to your problem, and then you just kept writing. Own your decisions. If you want look frumpy, do it.[/quote]

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