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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like there are two issues here. DH sounds like a bit of a man baby in some regards (needs help packing his lunch? boy, bye) but OP also sounds like a control freak/martyr type. [/quote]

Yeah. The cat litter is the only thing that needed to be done, IMO. Why did you have to hit the ground running after a weekend away and long drive? Maybe he just wanted to chill for a while and get to the chores later - there’s actually nothing wrong with that. It seems that you and your DH are different in this respect, but there’s no right or wrong way.

I’m more like your DH, and so is my husband - we’re pretty laid back, and after traveling we both definitely need some downtime before we get to unpacking, laundry, etc. Since you and your DH are so different in this way, you need to find a happy medium. Don’t unpack for him or do his laundry for him - let him handle his own, in his own time. Let him shop for food, or pick up some prepared food or takeout, since you’re sick. If he asks you to make a different soup, tell him absolutely not. If he asks you to make his lunch for the next day, tell him you are sick in bed and down for the count - don’t indulge him.[/quote]

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