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[quote=Anonymous]A lot of us have forgotten how intimidating sex can be to a virgin. Mostly, because we lost our virginity when we were in hs or college. So maybe OP should go back to the basics and do what teenagers do. Learn sex in stages. That might help her to demystify sex. Make it less scary. Start off making out/petting for a couple days. Then oral sex for a couple days. Have a couple days where OP and her dh can just explore each other's bodies without pressure for more. Work her way up to penetration. The process might take longer than her dh wants but he knew that he was marrying a virgin. That's going to come with its own set of issues when it comes to sex. If he's also a virgin, this might be helpful to him too. At the end of day, losing your virginity is a much more difficult (read: potentially painful) for a woman than it is for a man. If he wants her to enjoy sex, he needs to make it enjoyable for her. [/quote]
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