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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk to your husband and explain you'd like your first time to be special.

Clear your schedule for Saturday.  Make reservations at a nice place for dinner.  Don't fight all day Friday or Saturday (even if you feel justified).  Dress up and don't eat/drink too much (otherwise you'll complain you're drunk or bloated).  Have a nice romantic dinner and try to remember why you married the guy in the first place (hopefully out of love?).

Come home, get it on.  If you don't enjoy it, don't tell him immediately (good way to guarantee it doesn't happen again soon).  If you do like it, woohoo!  Problem solved.[/quote]

I want to enjoy it and have fun! We’ve waited so long! Yes I’m scared but that’s not what’s holding me back.

We never got a honeymoon. I just want to go away somewhere or have a day where we can relax just be together and warm up to it.

With full time work, commutes,stress etc, it’s hard for me mentally to want to get it on at 10 pm on a Wednesday for the first time. 
M[/quote]

Why can't you enjoy it and have fun in your own home on Friday night or on the weekend when there's no place to be? Why not lay around in bed all day Sat and just let it happen that way? Personally I wouldn't be going 2 hrs away to stay in a hotel to have sex in order for it to be special -- if anything I feel like you'd get stressed by the packing and the traffic and use that as a reason to cop out. Have you all even been naked together? Touched each other -- have you grabbed his dick, as he touched your breasts? If you really want it, get naked together and biology and feelings will take over -- it's not like you'll just put your jeans back on to take the trash out.[/quote]

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