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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Oh no! the opposite sex finds me too attractive. I have to live with people constantly desiring me and trying to date me!"

- said about 1% of men ever

I acknowledge that men have no perspective on what it means to be a woman constantly fending off suitors and sifting through the dozens of frogs to find their prince charming.

But women need to admit that being so desired and sought after is an entitlement that most men can only dream of. Men are accustomed to being the chaser so they can't begin to understand why women wouldn't love the attention. I'm sure it makes life much harder for women in some ways, but then I'm also sure it is pretty awesome most of the time.

Women have no sense whatsoever of what it means to be a man trying to find a mate only to be rejected at least 8 out of 10 times. Women are aghast when they are rejected, but yet it's men's egos that are mocked as being fragile. You've never seen a fragile ego until you've seen a woman get rejected![/quote]

You remind of the firefly that was desperately still lighting up in my garden late last August.[/quote]

Yes. My God, the delusion.

I was sexually assaulted for the first time when I was 13. Not the last time, but that was the first. The fact that there is a man out there who is sick enough in the head to be jealous of that experience because it isn't "rejection" is shocking to me. [/quote]

Complaining about regular dating and then comparing it to those of us talking about being abused, assaulted or raped is pretty disingenuous. Your struggles with dating and wishing you could get all of he attention women get doesn't quite compare to how I felt when a man decided to shove his penis in my mouth when I was 12. But you had to come in and give your mighty opinion on a topic the OP asked women about. I'm so glad we could have your amazing, insightful thoughts. ?[/quote]

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