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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cannot stand it when neighbors get into other neighbor’s business.

They feel it is their right since they live so close by, but honestly it isn’t.

Trust me, do not touch this w/a ten foot pole.

Stay as uninvolved as humanly possible and everyone should be okay.[/quote]

I don't think this is the case with this situation. It's not like OP was seeking out information about this couple. The guy made a really dumb choice by going to a restaurant so close to his house with his AP. He must be really brazen or just doesn't give a crap anymore. [/quote]

I don’t know. The radius of how far you can get driving 15 minutes away from home in any direction seems pretty wide to me. I have never once run into any of my neighbors while eating at a restaurant 15 minutes from home, or even 5 minutes away, for that matter. The odds seem pretty large against it.

In the wife’s position, I wouldn’t want a neighbor to say anything. Their situation may be if not an open marriage then  “don’t ask don’t tell.” They may be staying together just for the kids. You don’t know what the effect of telling would be on the kids, who should be the first consideration. The wife may suspect and not care that her husband is involved with someone, but if it becomes public she may be forced to act (divorce) through some social pressure.

I wouldn’t blow up the kids’ home right before the holidays unless I knew that their situation would improve if I shared the information. Do whatever is best for the kids.[/quote]

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