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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Next time you are talking to her I would casually mention that you saw him out at a restaurant. Then just honestly answer any question she asks.[/quote]

This is the approach I would take too. [/quote]

"Jenny, there is no good way to ask this, but I was surprised to see Bill on a romantic date at The Bistro the other night around 7pm.  Are you guys splitting up?"[/quote]

Even if I’d never done more than occasionally wave to you, I’d want you to tell me.

OP, tell her.[/quote]

OP here. When they first moved in, I was friends with the wife. Then as I got to know her better I found out that she is surrounded by drama in all of her relationships and so I started pulling back. She always seems on the verge of some sort of explosion. She seems to have some mental and physical health issues. I'm not excusing his behavior at all but I think he's been fed up with her for a while from what my husband tells me.   I feel like if I told her what I saw then she would do something drastic and I don't want to be responsible for that. There are also kids involved, so I really have to be careful. I'm annoyed at her husband for putting his business out there like that but now it's too late. I just want to avoid both of them for a while but the holiday season is coming up and I know they'll be at a lot of the same events as we will.

But then I start feeling guilty because if the shoe was on the other foot I'd want someone to tell me so I could start looking into what was going on. [/quote]
You truly have no idea what's going on in their marriage. If these were good friends of yours, it would be different. But you barely know them. This couldn't be less your business. Stop worrying about it, stop thinking about it, focus on your own life. Don't let their toxicity seep into your life. [/quote]

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