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Reply to "My soon to be EX DH is hosting a birthday party for our child at his Girlfriends house"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I have to disagree with PPs who recommended two parties. This is so hard for your kid and he's going to feel very much in the middle of this mess [/quote] Me too. Honestly, if I got an invite to a second birthday for a kid whose parents were divorcing, I'd feel very sorry for the kid and very pissed off at the parent who issued the second invite because I'd feel like that parent was putting my kid in the middle of your dirty laundry. I feel very bad for you OP, but you really don't want to do anything that makes things worse. I agree with the PP who said to think about the long game and if you do, you will see that a second party isn't going to go well for anyone. Find a special way to celebrate with your child. If it's too hard to go to the party, which it would likely be for me if I were you, then don't go. If you can muster what it takes to go, it's going to be awkward and you'll likely be the bad guy if things go wrong - another reason I wouldn't go. [/quote]
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