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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he has already sent invitations to your son's friends, then I would stick with that being the party this year.  No reason to drag the friends into your mess.  If I received invitations to two different parties for the same kid I'd assume the parents are petty.

Let him know that next year you would like to host or co-host it.  You should go to the party for at least part of the time.[/quote]

This. I'm so sorry, OP - this is a s**t sandwich but I have to disagree with PPs who recommended two parties. This is so hard for your kid and he's going to feel very much in the middle of this mess so all you can do is take the high road for your kid. It is better for him if you keep things peaceful and only fight the really important battles. Go to this party, focus only on your child, be cordial. It sucks so bad but it's the best thing for your kid and it will help him through this really difficult time.

Find a special way to celebrate his birthday with your family and let the other party go. Are his friends supposed to buy two gifts? It's awkward and puts your conflicts on public display.

Always take the high road and focus only on what will be least difficult for your DS. Trust me, he'll look back and remember how gracefully you handled things and he'll be grateful for it.[/quote]

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