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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP.  I could try to go part time, but am wondering if I'll end up even more tired.  I'll end up taking on all the load with the kids, and it would still be go-go-go, if I work 9-3, say.

My oldest, who will be starting middle school next year, has ADHD and anxiety, and 6th grade is already rough (they move through 3 teachers, in prep for middle school).

I'm seeing this as a way to help him practice executive functioning skills without rushing, seeing a coach and tutors that are less expensive (i.e., not after 6pm), and being there in the mornings for my younger one,too.  Benefit of creating a less hectic home life, generally, as well.

I could do part time taking a day off, but that doesn't actually help with being there for older kid as I'm trying to.

Lots to think about.[/quote]

You have to do what is right for your family.  It sounds like you have very valid reasons for wanting to try it.  I agree that working 9-3 and then taking on the majority of responsibility for all after school responsibilities - driving, homework, dinner prep, cleaning, cooking... can feel like more than what you were doing when you worked "full time" and had some help with some of that (whether it be babysitter, daycare or that DH did more).  I know many single parents do all this and more, working full time and I commend them.

However, it sounds to me like you are feeling like you are not able to do all you would like to for/with your kids with working full time, so if you have the opportunity to make a change for a few years, go for it!  If you find you are bored, you can always accelerate your timeline and return to the workforce sooner.  I think middle school is a great time to reconnect with your kids and establish a relationship that can carry you through the teen years.

Best of luck, OP![/quote]

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