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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
It's the insecurity and the apparently compulsive need to start threads about it.[/quote]

Exactly but insecurity stems from shame of age, salary, kids, school, etc etc..... and all of us humans are insecure about 1 of those in one way or another[/quote]

Yeah, absolutely. And to the extent that we can balance shame and insecurity with moving forward and exercising competence at being a good partner, it is not going to pull apart the relationship.

But if it is an obsessive focus for someone, well, then that is what they will bring into any relationship, and that *will* pull apart a relationship.

Whether or not anonymous men on an anonymous forum would be willing to date this woman (depending on the year and the thread, it's 28, or 29, and maybe 30 (can't tell because it looks like at least one thread has been deleted) with her nanny background, and her expected salary, and all the rest that always comes out -- that doesn't matter. Spoiler alert: some will say "yes" and some will say "no," and that would not correspond 1:1 with what would happen if she met them in person.

And it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.

One thread asking the question is no big deal, even two of them. But when it's an obsession, then people who do say "yes" will not continue to say yes to maintaining a relationship anyway. not if they are healthy.

And this sounds like a careful, conscientious, bright young woman in the prime of her life who deserves to seek what she wants and needs without the obsessive questioning on an anonymous forum. When she gets there, it will be fine. Really, it will.[/quote]

Op here. I didn't write any of those other threads. That woman was a pharmacist or something and a nanny. Neither my friend or I have ever been a pharmacist or a nanny. My friend doesn't ever post on here. I would prefer to focus on the question I asked regarding a man who will date a woman knowing she is unlikely to have children. [/quote]

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