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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your spouse should always be #1. If you put your spouse after your kids, you won't have a spouse, and the kids then suffer.
[b]As long as both parents are treating the kids as their 1.5 and their spouse as their 1[/b]. it will be ok.[/quote]

+1,000.

The answers from so many on these boards shows why there are so many divorces. People have their priorities backward.[/quote]

Whatever. That's how my and DH's parents were and now they are old and lonely and wondering why no one wants to visit them. After the first grandchild was born FIL openly and bitterly complained to anyone who would listen about how "no one cared about him anymore." Jealous of an infant who didn't even live with him. Pathetic.

You can't always put your kids second to yourself and your partner and expect they will continue to go along with that after they are grown. Our kids come first because we are adults. Our home is a very happy one.

(and 1.5...what the hell does that even mean? It sounds like a cop out because you know saying that your kids are 2nd to yourself and your spouse sounds unbelievably selfish).[/quote]

So this.  I grew up and my Dad was always #1.   Now that he has grandchildren he doesn't like that he can't get his way or do exactly what he wants when visiting [/quote]

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