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[quote=Anonymous]I think that since you made the decision to stay with your husband and marry him--knowing full well that when you marry a person, you also "marry their family"'so to speak--you should work on a cordial relationship with his family and try to rebuild. There can BE gray areas. It doesn't have to be full-on love and intertwined lives and it does have to be zero contact. I don't think it is a bad thing to have a civil, and friendly, relationship. At this point in time you're just going into it with eyes wide open and you know that there are behaviors you should be on guard against. I don't see much good coming from isolating them. If they were part of the original problem wouldn't it make some sense to try to keep them close to you to know what they're up to? [/quote]
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